How to Buy a Vibrator

Buying a vibrator can be an exciting journey of self-exploration. Many people worry about becoming desensitized by their toys. However the majority of women I know say that this is not true.

Going into a sex shop or browsing online could expose you to a plethora of dildos, vibrators and clit-suckers. It can be overwhelming and make you nervous to buy something that will not work for you.

1. Size

The size of the vibrator will determine what type of stimulation you get. It's also a good idea to think about the kind of stimulation you're looking for -- do you prefer external (labia, clitoris) or internal (anal vagina, labia and G-spot) stimulation? Do you want a big strong, powerful sensation or something more subtle?

A variety of sizes of sex toys are available to suit different needs. For example, a slim, ring-like vibe designed to go around your index finger provides clitoral stimulation and can be used to enjoy a romantic evening on your own or with an accomplice. They're usually cheaper than a larger vibrator.

There are other smaller vibrations that are inserted into your anal and stimulate the G-spot. These toys are also known as clitoral succor toys and are very enjoyable to use when masturbating with your partner. Another option is a hands-free rabbit vibrator, such as the Eva that has wings that wrap around the labia to provide clitoral stimulation, and remain in the position. Some people say this type of vibrator can give them gas they never thought possible.

Before purchasing a vibrator, try it out to ensure you are satisfied with the feel of it. Ask questions at a store that offers a range of sex toys. The staff at these stores are often knowledgeable and happy to help. They'll be able to give you the pros and cons of each toy, and also advice on how to make use of it.

It's important to read the return policy of the store prior to making an expensive purchase. Some stores let you return a vibrator that doesn't work so you can try another one.

2. Design

A good rabbit vibrator will be at ease and discrete. There are many brands that offer toys can be used together or in the bedroom. The best toys are designed to fit the body of any type. Some of our favorites include a long, thin necklace-like look called the Vesper from Crave and the sexually attractive Tennis Pro by Dame, which has a tennis-ball-shaped head to massage the g-spot vibrator on the clitoris prior insertion. Both have soft silicone and can be controlled by just a single button. We're also a fan of the super-soft dildos and strokers of Dame that are safe for the body and come in a variety of colors, including jade, quartz and navy.

Other online stores have caught on. The sexy and sophisticated e-commerce site Adam & Eve offers a range of lubricants including one designed specifically for sex toys. The USB-rechargeable, brightly colored items, like the slim, sexy Unbound Bender and the Unbound Bender, are completely waterproof and free of phthalates. "Phthalates are an ingredient in plasticizers that can leak into the body and cause irritation, which is why we prefer to sell silicone that is non-porous," explains co-founder and CEO Jillian Cline.

Similarly, the encyclopedic site Maude--which was launched with a risky gray and forest green website that looks more like a sex book as opposed to a traditional toy store a collection of high-quality, gender-neutral vibrators that look like strokers and dildos (including the Strategist's top choice, the Drop), as well as a comprehensive guide to the different types of vibrations that vibrators can provide. For instance that a rumbly sound feels deeper in the body and may reduce the risk of temporary desensitization that some users experience when using more buzzy sensations.

The mall staple store Spencer's has a huge sex toy section, and an sexy blog to help users understand and enjoy their purchases. It's easy to navigate the online store has sections on categories like bondage toys including sex toys and other surprising items such as gums that stimulate females and blue raspberry throat sprays for oral stimulation.

3. Power

It's great fun to play with powerful sexual toys, but it's important to be aware of what your body capable of handling. Don't go overboard. "Our bodies and minds are elastic," Church says, so if you're worried about becoming numb to your vibrator, consider changing your routine or switching to something lighter for awhile. "Even if a toy isn't doing what it used too, it may be that a new one will provide enough stimulation."

The motor Corded Vibrator of a toy can determine the strength of its motor. The greater the power, the more intense the vibrations will be. Start small and gradually increase the frequency of vibrations. Too much vibration too soon could cause pain and discomfort.

Consider a toy that has internal motors that operate independently if you wish to experience a variety of sensations simultaneously. This allows for the toys multiple functions to be performed simultaneously, such as sucking and licking using the vibrations or rotating shafts. This wand massager is rated with 18,000 five-star reviews. its four motors can deliver sensations that range from a foreplay-friendly experience to supercharged gasps.

A corded vibrator that connects to the wall can offer a power level that is difficult to match with rechargeable models, though it will cost more upfront. The Strategist recommends the Hitachi Vulva-sized vibrator that has strong head and deep rumbly sound for those trying to save money. The box even includes an sex-toy cleaner as well as cleaning wipes to give you the ultimate in maintenance and care. Be sure to follow the toy's cleaning instructions to make sure water never gets into the electrical components.

4. Battery life

A sexy that runs out at the right moment can transform intimate moments into nightmares. Be aware of the battery's lifespan prior to purchasing a vibrator. It will influence how often you use it and also the quality of its performance.

Look for sex toys that can be recharged and corded vibrator have different modes, like pulsing and strobing. You can also find wireless or app-controlled vibes that are great for masturbation while on the move. Some brands include a storage box and locking system with their toy boxes. This makes them ideal for travel or when you don't want parents or roommates to find out about your erogenous behavior.

Consider the material that your vibrator is made from, as it can have an impact on how it feels and how good it is. Consider options such as medical-grade ABS plastic and silicone, which are safe and easy to clean. You can also find sex toys made of unique materials such as silk and horn.

If you're looking to purchase an external toy, like a vibrating bullet vibrator or wand or an internal toy such as a prostate vibe, the Dame's Fin is the perfect choice. The toy vibrates like a smooth stone and has grooves on the sides to help you hold it. It also features various modes, an USB charger and a satin pouch. Our panelists agreed that the Fin's pulsing patterns helped to climax faster than they have ever.

This little vibrator from Ann Summers will be a excellent choice for beginners looking for a low-cost powerful and powerful vibrator. This small, palm-sized vibrator is easy to use, comes with a variety of vibration settings, and includes useful instructions and diagrams. It's also waterproof so you can use it in the shower or bath.

5. Stimulation

When it comes to vibrators, there are a lot of options. Some are designed to offer lots of power and really make you move, while others are designed to provide an easier, more gentle experience. It is important to determine the kind of stimulation you want and then choose the best one.

You'll also have to decide whether you want an internal or external toy and what texture appeals to you. If you like oral sex you could select a toy with an clitoral sucking head. Many of these toys are capable of vibrating and reach the G-spot. If you want a little more lubrication, consider a smooth silicone toy or medical grade model.

Vibrators are fun to use in tandem or on their own and can be a great addition to your masturbation routine. If you're in a relationship it's simple to integrate a vibrator with foreplay or penetration. Couples may employ vibrators to reach their "sweet spots," which can lead powerful orgasms.

Choosing a vibrator can be somewhat daunting, especially when you're a new buyer and you don't know what you'll be using it for. As increasing numbers of sex toys are accessible online, it's easier to locate the sex toys you want without having to have an awkward conversation with a shop's employee. Many brands also come with discreet packaging, which can be hidden in a corner of your room to keep curious roommates and parents out.